Day #4

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Day 4 - 1/10/18 : #30DaysInTransition

Dating while trans is s lot harder than I thought. When I identified as a lesbian all I had to do was find a girl that liked girls, right to the point. However being trans, I have to find straight women who sees me as a man, or queer folk who are okay with me being trans or just someone whom likes me for me. Dating while trans challenged the amount of confidence I had within myself and the love I had for me. But dating while being trans has shown me so much about myself I never knew. I value my time and efforts towards another, I enjoy intimacy and I respect myself a lot more. I gathered that I’ve been through too much to be with someone who doesn’t love me for me. And now I’m ready to make connections that matter.